Dear Dennis:

My son is 22 years old. From 6 am to 4 pm he is on the phone, texting, or talking. He does not want to go to school, or get another job in the morning. Since 2007 he has been out of high school. He works from 20 - 30 hrs a week part time in the kitchen at the local hospital. Yes, he has been sleeping with his girl, a bad influence. HELP!

Hello:

Time for him to move out!!!!! He is doing what he is doing because he can and because you continue to enable that to happen. His only chance to make some changes is after you make some changes. Get some support if you cannot do it alone. Good luck. — Dennis